Category: Family

  • Not all the time, but most of the time, the little goals we achieve – the ones that remind us that we’re human but still making it – matter more than crossing off the bigger goals. It may be that we’ve all learned not to reach for the moon because life kicks us in the…

  • Good morning to my Raspberries. It has been a week. I think my days and nights are mixed up, and I find myself staying up later and later, and then sleeping halfway into the day. It will sort itself out, but for now, I’m enjoying the relaxation that comes with working from home and having…

  • I have been tasked to identify myself outside of my everyday roles. I’m a mother, daughter, employee, aunt, and a great many other things.  But apparently, those are just titles – not “me.” I am 38 years old.  And I have no idea who I am. I can use various adjectives to describe myself – introverted, kind, witty,…

  • I used to have a “good enough” complex. Let me explain what I mean. I wanted to be liked so badly, fit in so badly, and be “good enough” so badly, that I would change myself to suit the expectations of others. Examples: If someone I wanted to spend time with said his/her salary was…

  • Good morning. Well, I suppose it will be afternoon by the time I finish. I stay at home most of the time. I don’t go out. There are times when I stay home because I want to and other times because I don’t have the energy or motivation to even begin to put in the…

  • My second therapy appointment was this week. I go every Tuesday at 8:00. My therapist’s name is Christy. Having lately been convicted of my mouth, I am doing my level best to do what I feel like I’m being called to do, which is hush. I do not know if it is because I do…

  • Good morning, Raspberries. I wanted to talk to you a little bit about something that has been on my heart. I went to a new therapist yesterday, my first appointment. I’ll admit it was a little odd. I have been in therapy off and on for about 25 years. I’m not sure if I should…

  • When I can’t think of what to write – when I’m anxious or when writer’s block hits me like a rough wave – I ask ChatGPT to give me a writing prompt. Here’s tonight’s: Write to yourself as if you’re looking in the mirror right now. Be brutally honest. Describe what you see, what you…

  • On today’s episode of “So what’s the deal with the raspberry?” – let’s get into 10 facts. I say “facts” and not “fun facts” because raspberries can be bitter at times. What are the types of things you guys like reading? I want to make sure these posts are insightful and entertaining, and at the…

  • When I can’t think of blog material on my own…when the need for inspiration breaks my brain…but still knowing that this blog will end up being good for my soul if I remain consistent, I take to Google, Pinterest, etc. and let one of those choose a writing prompt for me. That’s kind of where…